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Discreet Solid 925 Heavy Sterling Silver Chain Locking BDSM Slave Submissive Sub Pet Babygirl DDLG Day Collar & Free Lock

$149.95

DESCRIPTION

NOTE: CAN BE MADE LARGER. PLEASE EMAIL US (BEFORE PURCHASING)   IF YOU WANT IT BIGGER.


***CRITICAL*** SIZING IS CRITICAL FOR THIS COLLAR. PLEASE READ SIZING BEFORE PURCHASING

This expertly handcrafted collar is composed of 100% Solid .925 solid Sterling Silver that is 100% Hypoallergenic.  It is NOT "plated" nor is it coated. It is the best quality 925 Sterling Silver available. Please rest assured that our sterling will have NO nickel additive. You may take complete confidence in our seasoned silversmith skills.

LOCK: Comes with a FREE, FULLY FUNCTIONING Mirror Finished Nickel Plated lock (Heart or Round) and 2 keys. (Note: Nickel plated locks are not recommended for 24/7 wear.)

UPGRADE TO A SOLID STERLING SILVER LOCK OR SCREW CLASP!
(SEE PICTURES & Drop down Menu OR EMAIL US FOR MORE INFORMATION)

-Make sure to read our shop announcements and our shop policies before purchasing!
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TOTAL LENGTH:
The size you choose in the “Total Length” drop down should NOT be your neck measurement. Please do not select your "actual" neck measurement as this will more than likely cause your collar to NOT fit correctly. The size you select in the drop down menu is the "size" you want your collar to be. Ultimately it is up to you to choose the correct Total Length you feel suits you best. (SEE SUGGESTED SIZING METHOD AT THE BOTTOM OR WATCH OUR SIZING VIDEO TUTORIAL)

https://tobehis.com/p/sizing-tutorial

Also, please remember this collar is being handcrafted and you must understand and allow for human accuracy, not machined accuracy. There are NO mass produced items here. While we pride ourselves on accuracy, our works will be within a 1/8” inch, give or take. This is negligible and certainly not enough to affect the fit of your collar.
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LOCKS & LOCK UPGRADES
Here at ToBeHis is your ONLY opportunity to upgrade your lock to one that you can truly wear 24/7! No more replacing your nickel plated lock, when the nickel plating wears away! Our options do NOT exist anywhere else in the world and ONLY here at ToBeHis. You will find your choice of lock in the pictures as well as the “Lock” drop down. Your collar is only as genuinely 24/7 wearable as its lock! Our ToBeHis exclusive choices include:

NICKEL PLATED LOCKS (INCLUDED FREE WITH NO UPGRADE NECESSARY)
This lock is composed of a zinc alloy core, plated with a silvery mirror nickel finish. As with ALL plated items, the finish will eventually and permanently wear away with use leaving it looking dingy and tarnished. This wear cannot be repaired or fixed. The nickel plated lock is not recommended with those who have sensitive skin or are allergic to the latter mentioned metals. Each nickel plate lock will come with 2 nickel plated keys. (most upgrades come with only 1 key)

SOLID 925 STERLING SILVER LOCKS:
This lock is entirely solid 925 sterling silver, including the inside workings, with the exception of the 316L Stainless Steel inner spring. Comes in 3 different sizes and 3 different shapes, Heart, Round, and Square (see pics). One lock will come with one solid 925 sterling silver key.)

MASTER'S SECURITY STAR SCREW BDSM CLASP
This unique clasp is the ONLY one of it's kind in the world. Specifically designed for the BDSM lifestyle it is the smallest and most discreet BDSM locking mechanism in the ENTIRE WORLD. Only found here at ToBeHis! It can be made from Solid 925 Sterling Silver or Solid 14/18K gold. (you can check our store for more details)

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LOCK ENGRAVING:
Please use the drop down menu for engraving.  If you have any special requests please email us FIRST before purchasing.


Triskelions or symbols are a separate $14.95 fee.  Please email us FIRST before purchasing if you want something special engraved.  We can do logos, photos and a lot more!
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SIZING SUGGESTION (NOT INSTRUCTION)

The best method we've found for getting your perfect cuff size is what we call the "Cardboard Method." Find an empty cereal box or pizza box (non-corrugated) or similar material like a soda bottle or any sturdy material you can use to cut out a long strip. It must not be a string or any kind of chain, it must be rigid like a cuff. Cut it to approximately 1/4" wide and a little longer than you think the cuff should be. You can tape two pieces together if have to for added length. Then tape it around your ankle end to end. If it's too big cut it down a little at a time until you get the exact comfortable fit you want. Wear it for a while (at least an hour or two or more) so that you can get an idea for the feel. (wearing it for a while is VERY important.) Then when you find the right size, measure it and that is the total size of your collar.

CHECK OUT OUR SIZING TUTORIAL VIDEO:

https://tobehis.com/p/sizing-tutorial

Thank you so much for your interest in our handmade Luxury ToBeHis Day collars and locks! Each and EVERY single one of our pieces are lovingly and painstakingly handcrafted from scratch.

See our “About Us” page here on our etsy store for a little sneak peek at our process and our art. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not feel hesitant to ask! We are lighting fast with our responses and we are always SO happy to help out our customers!

Sincerely,
Victoria