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Luxury BDSM Day Collars, Locks & Jewelry - Handcrafted by an M/s lifestyle couple since 2013

When Quality Really Matters...

About Us Video

Click here to watch the short ToBeHis® about us video. Meet us, Paul and Victoria, and get a behind the scenes view of what makes our work worth having. Each piece is handcrafted from scratch with love and a deep understanding of this lifestyle, as TPE couple ourselves.

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What's NEW?

Finally! After 5 years of waiting it's FINALLY here!

Our famous Exclusive, Star Peg Security Jewelry Quality SCREW LOCK!

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