Handmade Custom BDSM Day Collars since 2013
Finally! We now have the LARGE size in the 316L stainless steel round locks! Can be selected with applicable collars or individually.
Click here to watch the short ToBeHis® about us video. Meet us, Paul and Victoria, and get a behind the scenes view of what makes our work worth having. Each piece is handcrafted from scratch with love and a deep understanding of this lifestyle, as TPE couple ourselves.
A wonderful experience all around. The necklace is magnificent, great workmanship. It comes in a very special box and shipped very quickly. The owners communicated with me very promptly. Wish I could give more than 5 stars.
This is the second time working with ToBeHis. They are the only place I have found to find reliable hypo-allergenic jewelry. My order was custom, and was delivered to me in an impressive amount of time and communication was prompt. I will be coming back to them in the future.
Absolutely beautiful item. Shipped faster than initially anticipated. Will definitely purchase from ToBeHis again. The nickel lock is the one I currently have, but it's beautiful too, however we plan on getting a silver one very soon! Thank you!
I LOVE IT! Victoria & M. Paul have made me so very happy! We couldn't be more pleased with my anklet. The chain & lock are exquisite quality & workmanship and the front & backside engravings could not be any more perfect! You have 2 new and very satisfied customers & hopefully we'll be buying more collars in the future. Thank you both so very much. <3 ~tina
Absolutely perfect! My Sir and I really appreciate the love and hard work put into this piece. Your work is top quality, and it definitely shows. Hands down our favorite collar shop! Thank you so much. (Photo features our stainless steel mini lock previously purchased from you. We both love the durability and weight of this lock.)
I absolutely love this collar. It is incredibly beautiful and the craftsmanship is impeccable. I’m honored so wear something so beautiful and meaningful around my neck.
Also, ToBeHis deserves special appreciation for the care and concern they show each of their customers to ensure satisfaction and safety. This is high quality work from top notch providers. Can’t recommend ToBeHis enough.
Can’t say enough good things about this company and the people who run it. They were incredible to work with and the final product was exactly what I asked for. Beautifully made from the jewelry down to the packaging! Well done Paul & Victoria!
In love with my custom piece from ToBeHis! I couldn’t be more in love with my beautiful collar 💕 Thank you so much!
The collar is so lovely. The packaging was thoughtful and elegant, perfect for a special occasion. The weight of this collar is incredible, as well as the craftsmanship. I spent some time examining the links of the chain and the very heavy ring. You can tell from the fit and finish that this was made by a caring and talented person. I am forever grateful to Victoria and her Master for allowing me the opportunity to own one of their works. Thank you so very much!
Great customer service. Helped my out tremendously. Beautifully crafted. I will shop here again. Thank you for making this experience amazing.
The collar is beautiful, and obviously made with great care! And the interactions with the owners and the service to get the collar to me on the for a special event was superb! Overall a great experience!