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Luxury BDSM Day Collars, Locks & Jewelry - Handcrafted by a MS Lifestyle couple since 2013

WHEN QUALITY REALLY MATTERS!

Locks Information & Dimensions


LOCKS & LOCK UPGRADES:

OUR LOCKS ARE REAL FUNCTIONAL PADLOCKS THAT WORK WITH A KEY.  THEY ARE NOT CLASPS.

 

IMPORTANT:  "PERM" MEANS PERMANENT.  ANY LOCK THAT IS A "PERM" LOCK COMES WITH NOT KEY OR KEY HOLE AND ONCE LOCKED CANNOT BE OPENED.  THE ONLY WAY TO REMOVE IT IS TO CUT IT OR CUT THE COLLAR.  PLEASE EMAIL US IF YOU ARE NOT SURE WHAT A "PERM" LOCK IS.


Here at ToBeHis is your ONLY opportunity to upgrade your lock to one that you can truly wear 24/7! No more replacing your nickel plated lock when the nickel plating wears away!  Our options do NOT exist anywhere else in the world and can ONLY be found here at ToBeHis. You will find your choice of lock in the pictures as well as the “Lock” drop down.

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Please select your lock logically.  If the collar is to be worn snug or is a big collar don't select a Micro size lock.  Remember, our products are for jewelry "Day" collars that are symbolic of the lifestyle and only to be used for show. They should be cared for as you would any expensive piece of jewelry.

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Your collar is only as genuinely 24/7 wearable as its lock! Please see our store polices for our definition of 24/7 wear. Our ToBeHis exclusive choices include:


NICKEL PLATED LOCKS (FREE)

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This lock is composed of a zinc alloy core, plated with a silvery mirror nickel finish. As with ALL plated items, the finish will eventually and permanently wear away with use leaving it looking dingy and tarnished. This wear cannot be repaired or fixed. The nickel plated lock is not recommended with those who have sensitive skin or are allergic to the latter mentioned metals. This is a temporary lock. Additional keys can be added to cart in the "lock" section of our store.

 

NOTE: ALL SIZES ARE APPROXIMATE

Nickel Plated Heart

  • 28mm Height x 22mm Width x 6mm Depth x 2.5mm Diameter Hasp 
  • Comes with 2 keys
  • Temporary wear
  • NOT recommended for 24/7 Wear and  Not hypoallergenic


Nickel Plated Large Round

  • 40.5mm Height x 26mm Width x 7mm Depth x 3.5mm Diameter Hasp
  • Comes with 2 keys
  • Temporary wear
  • NOT recommended for 24/7 Wear and  Not hypoallergenic




    SOLID 925 STERLING SILVER & 14K GOLD LOCKS:
    (includes permanent "Perm" Locks)


    This lock is entirely solid 925 sterling silver, including the inside workings, with the exception of the 316L Stainless Steel rust resistant inner spring. One "locking" lock will come with one solid 925 sterling silver key. Additional keys can be added to cart in the "lock" section of our store. One Permanent or "Perm" lock will come WITHOUT keys and will be solid on both sides of the lock (no keyhole). These locks cannot be opened again once locked on. Lock dimensions are no different between locking and permanent. Each lock (and its key where applicable) will come with a quality stamp (bottom back) and our legal company hallmark (side edge) on each unit.

    NOTE: ALL SIZES ARE APPROXIMATE

    925 Micro Heart:

    • 20mm Height x 15.5 Width x 3.75 Depth x 1.5mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    925 Micro Round: 

    • 17.25mm Height x 11.5 Width x 3.75mm Depth x 1.5mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    925 Mini Heart:

    • 26.5mm Height x 21.5mm Width x 5.5mm Depth x 2.5mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    925 Mini Round:

    • 26.5mm Height x 18mm Width x 5mm Depth x 2.5mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    925 Mini Square:

    • 26.5mm Height x 17.5mm Width x 4.75 depth x 2.25mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic 


    925 Large Heart: 

    • 37.5mm Height x 29mm Width x 6mm Depth x 2.75mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear. (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic 


    925 Large Round: 

    • 38.5mm Height x 24.5mm Width x 6.25mm Depth x 2.75mm Hasp Diameter
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic

     

    MASTER'S SECURITY STAR SCREW BDSM CLASP: 
    (Style #1 and #2)


    This unique locking clasp is the ONLY one of it's kind. Specifically 3D CAD designed for the BDSM lifestyle, it is the smallest and most discreet BDSM locking mechanism in the ENTIRE WORLD. All of its components are solid sterling silver. Each Screw Clasp comes with one sterling key and one sterling screw. Additional keys and screws can be added to cart in the "lock" section of our store. Each screw clasp (and key) will come with a quality stamp and our legal company hallmark on the inside of each unit.


    925 Screw Clasp Style 1:

    • 9mm Diameter x 21.5mm Length x 6mm height
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    925 Screw Clasp Style 2:

    • 9mm Diameter x 17mm Length x 6mm height
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic 

     

    SOLID 316L SURGICAL STAINLESS STEEL LOCK UPGRADE: (24/7 wear)

    ONLY here at ToBeHis can you upgrade to this permanently lasting and skin friendly lock. This lock is composed entirely of the highest quality stainless steel (including the inner spring), which is 316L Surgical Stainless Steel. This lock comes with one 316L stainless steel key. Additional keys can be purchased and found in the "lock" section of our store. *These locks and keys are both hallmarked with our legal company name on the side. This mark is required of us by law and cannot be circumvented under any circumstance as a legal LLC.* Stainless Steel is a hard metal and should NEVER be paired with soft metals such as sterling and gold to minimize damage to the softer precious metals.

     

     

    NOTE: ALL SIZES ARE APPROXIMATE

    316L Micro Heart: 

    • 16.5mm Height x 12.5mm Width x 4mm Depth x 1.75mm  Diameter Hasp
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    316L Mini Heart:

    • 29.5mm Height x 23mm Width x 6mm Depth x 2.5mm Diameter  Hasp
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic



    316L Micro Round:

    • 19mm Height x 12.5mm Width x 4mm Depth x 1.75mm Hasp
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic


    316L Mini Round:

    • 27mm Height x 18mm Width x 6mm Depth x 2.5mm Hasp
    • Comes with 1 key
    • Forever wear (24/7)
    • Hypoallergenic

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    Black Coated Nickel Plated Locks

    This is our Exclusive Satin Black Coated Lock. It is 100% inert, 100% hypoallergenic and can be worn 24/7 (as long as the coating stays intact).

    Our definition of 24/7 is that it can continually stay in contact with the skin with no worries of any kind of metal allergic reaction. It can also be bathed with daily with no worries of damaging the lock.  24/7 does NOT mean indestructible. Like any other "coated" or "plated" item, the coating will eventually wear off.  How long depends on the wearer. It could be 2 years, it could be 2 weeks.  With the proper care the coating will stay intact for a long time. If you are rough with your jewelry or use it with any kind of stress it will chip the coating exposing the nickel plated metal underneath.

    The Black Coating is a very durable industrial heat applied polyresin that is 100% Hypoallergenic. Again, with the proper care should last quite some time.

    COMES WITH 2 NICKEL PLATED HEART KEYS

     

    Black Coated Nickel Plated Heart

    • 28mm Height x 22mm Width x 6mm Depth x 2.5mm Diameter Hasp 
    • Comes with 2 nickel plated silver keys
    • Temporary wear
    • 24/7 Wear and 100% Hypoallergenic (while coating stays intact) see FAQs for more info


    Black Coated nickel Plated Large Round

    • 40.5mm Height x 26mm Width x 7mm Depth x 3.5mm Diameter Hasp
    • Comes with 2 nickel plated silver keys
    • Temporary wear
    • 24/7 Wear and 100% Hypoallergenic (while coating stays intact) see FAQs for more info