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Meet Paul and Victoria

Hello and welcome to my store! My name is Victoria and I am the founder and proprietor of ToBeHisLLC. My journey started 4 years ago with my very first leap into the BDSM community. I left my life, my city and all of my literal (and not so literal) baggage behind to start a new life and fresh start in Ocala Florida. ToBeHis is my baby, my pride and joy that was once a small etsy store that I have raised into a full time and multifaceted company. My collars are my expressive art and my absolute passion. I love my trade with all of my heart! I am honored to serve my fellow BDSM community members, as I proudly craft their collars. Thank you for visiting and I hope to welcome you to the ToBeHis family!