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Black High Grade Leather with Sterling Silver Ends Locking BDSM Slave Sub Bondage Day Collar w/925 Sterling Scre Clasp option or Free Lock

$39.95

Description

NOTE: CAN BE MADE LARGER. CONTACT US IF YOU NEED IT BIGGER.

ALSO AVAILABLE IN OTHER COLORS!

This stunning collar is made from genuine hand dyed Black Very High Quality Kangaroo Leather and solid, Hypoallergenic 925 sterling silver ends. The pictures don't do it justice, it is even more beautiful in person! (IF YOU WANT A BELL CHECK OUR OTHER LISTINGS OR CONTACT US)

*WE DO NOT RECOMMEND BATHING OR SWIMMING WITH THIS COLLAR ON. SEE OUR STORE FOR 24/7 WEAR COLLARS

LOCK: Comes with a Free, high quality jewelry quality, functional, 24/7 Hypoallergenic, Mirror Finished, Nickel Plated heart shaped padlock and 2 keys to open it.

TOTAL LENGTH:
The size you choose in the “Total Length” drop down should NOT be your neck measurement. Please do not select your "actual" neck measurement, as your collar will NOT fit. The size you select in the drop down menu is the "size" you want your collar to be. Ultimately it is up to you to choose the correct Total Length you feel suits you best. (SEE SUGGESTED SIZING METHOD AT THE BOTTOM)

Also, please remember this collar is being handcrafted and you must understand and allow for human accuracy, not machined accuracy. There are NO mass produced items here. While we pride ourselves on accuracy, our works will be within a 1/8” inch, give or take. This is negligible and certainly not enough to affect the fit of your collar.
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LOCKS & LOCK UPGRADES
Here at ToBeHis is your ONLY opportunity to upgrade your lock to one that you can truly wear 24/7! No more replacing your nickel plated lock, when the nickel plating wears away! Our options do NOT exist anywhere else in the world and ONLY here at ToBeHis. You will find your choice of lock in the pictures as well as the “Lock” drop down. Your collar is only as genuinely 24/7 wearable as its lock! Our ToBeHis exclusive choices include:

NICKEL PLATED LOCKS (INCLUDED FREE WITH NO UPGRADE NECESSARY)
This lock is composed of a zinc alloy core, plated with a silvery mirror nickel finish. As with ALL plated items, the finish will eventually and permanently wear away with use leaving it looking dingy and tarnished. This wear cannot be repaired or fixed. The nickel plated lock is not recommended with those who have sensitive skin or are allergic to the latter mentioned metals. Each nickel plate lock will come with 2 nickel plated keys. (most upgrades come with only 1 key)

UPGRADES:
SOLID 925 STERLING SILVER LOCKS:
This lock is entirely solid 925 sterling silver, including the inside workings, with the exception of the 316L Stainless Steel inner spring. Comes in 3 different sizes and 3 different shapes, Heart, Round, and Square (see pics). One lock will come with one solid 925 sterling silver key.)


MASTER'S SECURITY STAR SCREW BDSM CLASP
This unique clasp is the ONLY one of it's kind in the world. Specifically designed for the BDSM lifestyle it is the smallest and most discreet BDSM locking mechanism in the ENTIRE WORLD. Only found here at ToBeHis! It can be made from Solid 925 Sterling Silver or Solid 14/18K gold. Comes with 1 Solid 925 Sterling Silver O-ring Star Key and Solid 925 Sterling Security Star Screw (not hex).
(you can check our store for more details)


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LOCK ENGRAVING:
If you want to add lock engraving to your order, you must write us BEFORE purchasing anything, so that we can make a "Private Listing" for your entire purchase which will include the engraving charge. Failure to do so will result in cancellation of your initial order so that a new private listing can be made for you with the correct information. This is critical for accurate order processing with no mistakes. The charges are as follows, with your choice of either BLOCK or SCRIPT font (See Store for Actual pics):
-One Sided Engraving $14.95
-Both Sided Engraving $24.95

Triskelions are a separate $9.95 fee. Please look into our “Lock” shop selection to view our Triskelion engravings.

NOTE: There is NO character Limit, as it really depends on your inscription. Keep in mind that these locks are small, so the inscription should be short and sweet. 1-2 words, maybe 3 if the last word is REALLY short. Please view the photos above for a ball park idea of what we can engrave for you! We're always here to help, just contact us.
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SIZING SUGGESTION (NOT INSTRUCTION)
The best method we've found for getting your perfect neck measurement for a chain collar is what we call the "String Method." With this method, take a string, shoelace, cord, or something similar to the thickness of the collar and put it around your neck to fall where you want it. It is very important that it fits exactly as you would like your collar to fit. It is a good idea to tape it together so you can look at it without having to have your hand holding it. Wear it for a bit, walk around, move, and make sure it feels comfortable. This will assure the correct total size and measurement and will duplicate the same results in the custom collar we make for you. Once it fits how you like it, measure it on a ruler and that is your total size. This will include the lock.

Thank you so much for your interest in our handmade Luxury ToBeHis Day collars and locks! Each and EVERY single one of our pieces are lovingly and painstakingly handcrafted from scratch.

See our “About Us” page here on our etsy store for a little sneak peek at our process and our art. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not feel hesitant to ask! We are lighting fast with our responses and we are always SO happy to help out our customers!

Sincerely,
Paul & victoria


CARE:
Do not wet this collar or bathe/swim with it. This leather is very soft and supple and if you keep it dry and take care of it, it should last many years. Occasionally apply some leather cleaner or preservative to keep leather in good condition.



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NEED FASTER SHIPPING? (USA only):
We ship all of our collars first class USPS (3-5 days). If you want faster shipping you can purchase it in our store. Just look for the shipping listings.

IMPORTANT: Purchasing Faster Shipping doesn't mean it will go out immediately. We still need 3 to 5 days to process and make your customer collar. Purchasing faster shipping will get it there faster once it ships out. If you really need it fast convo us first to see if we can ship it out faster.

We offer both USPS Priority (2-3 days) and Express (1-2 days)

NOTE: Express is NOT always over night. Your location determines if it is one or 2 days. Again, please convo us if you need it faster and we'll do everything we can to accommodate you.

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ENGRAVING
Yes! We finally do engraving!! If you want your lock personalized send us an email or look in our store.
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SOLID 925 STERLING SILVER LOCKS

NO ONE ELSE HAS THEM! Check our store for the ONLY Solid 925 Sterling Silver REAL WORKING padlocks with Sterling Silver Key!

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Thank You SO SO SO much for your visit and support! We cherish every one of our customers and thank you from the bottom of our hearts!
Sincerely,

Paul and Victoria